Monday, December 24, 2018

Merry Christmas

This year for my Christmas blog post I’m going to quote from my favorite Christmas hymns. The only Christmas songs I really like are hymns (just personal preference), so don’t expect me to quote anything modern. I hope you will enjoy these lyrics and I hope you have a Merry Christmas.

As usual for Christmas, here are links to the Christmas story, Matthew 1-2 and Luke 1-2.

The first Christmas hymn up is “God Rest You Merry, Gentlemen”. The whole Christmas season is summarized, basically, in the first verse,

God rest you merry, gentlemen, 
let nothing you dismay, 
remember Christ our Savior  
was born on Christmas Day 
To save us all from Satan's pow'r 
when we were gone astray. 
O tidings of comfort and joy,  
comfort and joy; 
O tidings of comfort and joy.


Next is “Angels from the Realms of Glory”. I’m going to quote the original final stanza, which isn’t included in some hymnals. It might sound gloomy to some people, however, it completes the narrative of the song. The narrative goes from the Angels song, in the first stanza one, leads to the Shepherds’ adoration, stanza two, and to Sages’ gifts, in the third stanza, and to Saints’ praise in heaven, stanza four, and lastly, to the Sinners’ repentance on earth.

Sinners, wrung with true repentance,  
Doomed for guilt to endless pains,
Justice now revokes your sentence,
Mercy calls you; break your chains.


“I Saw Three Ships” is up next. The original song is about the ships that took the supposed skulls of the wise men to Cologne cathedral in Germany. The version I’ve quoted, which is the most common version now, is about Mary and Jesus traveling to Bethlehem. I couldn’t decide which stanza to highlight, so here’s the whole song.

I saw three ship come sailing in, 
on Christmas day on Christmas day. 
I saw three ship come sailing in, 
on Christmas Day in the morning. 

And what was in those ships all three? 
on Christmas day on Christmas day. 
And what was in those ships all three? 
on Christmas Day in the morning. 

Our Saviour Christ and His lady, 
on Christmas day on Christmas day.  
Our Saviour Christ and His lady, 
on Christmas Day in the morning. 

And where they sailed those ships all three? 
on Christmas day on Christmas day. 
And where they sailed those ships all three? 
on Christmas Day in the morning.

All they sailed in to Bethlehem, 
on Christmas day on Christmas day. 
All they sailed in to Bethlehem, 
on Christmas Day in the morning.

And all the bells on earth shall ring, 
on Christmas day on Christmas day. 
And all the bells on earth shall ring, 
on Christmas Day in the morning. 

And all the angels in heaven shall sing, 
on Christmas day on Christmas day. 
And all the the angels in heaven shall sing, 
on Christmas Day in the morning. 

And all the souls on earth shall sing, 
on Christmas day on Christmas day. 
And all the souls on earth shall sing, 
on Christmas Day in the morning. 

And let us all rejoice again, 
on Christmas day on Christmas day. 
And let us all rejoice again, 
on Christmas Day in the morning. 


“Good Christian Men, Rejoice” is another good Christmas hymn. This song was originally written in German and Latin with the title of “In dulci jubilo”. It dates back to at least 1328. This is the third stanza,

Good Christian friends, rejoice  
with heart and soul and voice;  
now ye need not fear the grave:  
Jesus Christ was born to save!
Calls you one and calls you all 
to gain his everlasting hall. 
Christ was born to save! 
Christ was born to save!

Next I have “Hark! The Herald Angels sing”. This hymn was written in 1739 by Charles Wesley, the brother of John Wesley, as “Hymn for Christmas-Day”. Then in 1754, George Whitefield changed some wording in the the first verse and renamed it "Hark! the Herald Angels sing". I’m going to quote the third stanza,

Hail the Heav'n-born Prince of Peace 
Hail the Sun of Righteousness! 
Light and Life around he brings,  
Ris'n with Healing in his Wings.  
Mild he lays his Glory by, 
Born that Men no more may die; 
Born to raise the Sons of Earth, 
Born to give them second Birth.


Now, last but not least is “Silent Night”. “Silent Night” was written in 1816 by a Catholic priest named Josef Mohr from Oberndorf bei Salzburg, Austria. The original name was “Stille Nacht” and it was a poem written to commemorate the coming of peace after the Napoleonic Wars.

Two years later the river Salzbach flooded into Mohr's parish church of Saint Nicholas damaging the organ. Just days before Christmas Eve, Mohr contacted asked Franz Xaver Gruber, schoolmaster and organist in the nearby village of Arnsdorf, to compose a melody and guitar accompaniment for the Christmas Eve mass. Gruber composed the melody in an afternoon.

I’m going to quote the last stanza,

Silent night, holy night, 
Son of God, love's pure light; 
Radiant beams from thy holy face 
With the dawn of redeeming grace, 
Jesus, Lord, at thy birth, 
Jesus, Lord, at thy birth. 

Friday, December 7, 2018

Is money "the root of all evil"?

“Money is the root of all evil.” I’ve heard this phrase many times in my life and I’ve said it many times believing it to be a Biblical quote. Many folks use this quote as a condemnation of the wealthy. The real quote uses slightly different wording, which changes the meaning. This is my topic today, the Biblical view of money.

The actual quote is found in 1 Timothy, “For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some people, eager for money, have wandered from the faith and pierced themselves with many griefs.” (1 Timothy 6:10) The verse is speaking directly about the love of money as opposed to money itself. This love of money “is a root of all kinds of evil”, not the root of all evil. This may seem to be a petty argument over semantics, but there really is more to it than that.

Let's start with money versus the love of money. Money is needed to buy food, clothing, housing, water, healthcare, and many other necessities. Money can also be used for charitable endeavors such as, feeding the hungry or buying winter coats for the homeless. All of these good things are accomplished with money. Now, the love of money is dangerous. The love of money leads to things like extortion, Ponzi schemes, theft, corruption, and excessive spending. The money doesn’t cause these actions, a heart poisoned by the love of money causes these actions.

The context of 1 Timothy 6:10 also clarifies this point; this section, made up of verses 3-10, is talking about false teachers and the love of money. Verses 3-10 read,

“If anyone teaches otherwise and does not agree to the sound instruction of our Lord Jesus Christ and to godly teaching, they are conceited and understand nothing. They have an unhealthy interest in controversies and quarrels about words that result in envy, strife, malicious talk, evil suspicions and constant friction between people of corrupt mind, who have been robbed of the truth and who think that godliness is a means to financial gain. But godliness with contentment is great gain. For we brought nothing into the world, and we can take nothing out of it. But if we have food and clothing, we will be content with that. Those who want to get rich fall into temptation and a trap and into many foolish and harmful desires that plunge people into ruin and destruction. For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some people, eager for money, have wandered from the faith and pierced themselves with many griefs.”(emphasis added)

To put that another way, those “who think that godliness is a means to financial gain” do not agree with the teaching of Christ and “godly teaching” and are conceited. Apparently at this time there false teachers that taught that godliness brings financial gain and people were believing it. This passage also clarifies that the love of money is the actual problem. The Bible doesn’t take the easy route and blame an inanimate object, rather, it goes straight to the condition of the heart.

Next, let’s talk about “the root of all evil” versus “a root of all kinds of evil.” The misquote (“Money is the root of all evil”) implies that having money (or material possessions) leads to evil, because money is the root of all evil. Whereas “the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil” means that money can lead to evil, if  it’s allowed to. As stated earlier, money can be good or evil depending on how it’s used.

A situation that folks typically include with the misquote (“Money is the root of all evil”) is Jesus and the rich young man, or ruler depending on the translation, found in Mark 10:17-27. In the respect of time, I’ll summarize this account for you:

A rich young man stops Jesus one day and asks him, “Good teacher, what must I do to inherit eternal life?” (v. 17) Jesus explains that none are good except God and he says, “You know the commandments.” (v. 18-19) The young man arrogantly declares, “Teacher, all these I have kept since I was a boy.” Jesus lovingly tells the young man, “One thing you lack. Go, sell everything you have and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me.” (v. 20-21) The young man went away sad because he couldn’t bring himself to do it. (v. 22)

Jesus then tells his disciples, “Children, how hard it is to enter the kingdom of God! It is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for someone who is rich to enter the kingdom of God.” (v. 23-25) In light of this teaching, the disciples ask Jesus who can be saved and he replies, “With man this is impossible, but not with God; all things are possible with God.” (v. 26-27)

This account is commonly mistaken as a condemnation of being wealthy, but this is a condemnation of idolatry. The idol being money in this case. The rich young man put his money before God and, therefore, couldn’t be saved. “No one can serve two masters” (Matthew 6:24) Money had become his master. Jesus told his disciples that it is difficult for a rich person to be saved, not impossible. He said it is impossible for man alone, however, all things are possible with God.

Here is the good news folks: if a person has devoted their life to money, then they can still be saved, as long as they give their life over to Christ. It won’t be easy, but it’s not impossible with  God. This is the Gospel of Jesus in a nutshell. No matter the sin, aside from continued unbelief, a person can be saved by the grace of Jesus Christ.

So, the love of money is the sin, not having money. We shouldn’t condemn someone for something that isn’t a sin. And idolatry isn’t specific to one group of people, anything can be used as an idol. As with many things, it’s about the condition of the heart and not an object.

Thursday, October 25, 2018

The Golden Rule

This story occurred a few years ago when I was attending community college.


We had a fire drill on a bitterly cold day while it was drizzling. I was cold and people were walking all over the place as I was trying to get inside after we were clear to go back in. I can’t handle cold weather well: my hand gets too cold to drive correctly and it was almost to that point this time. It goes without saying that I was not in the most Christian mood at that point.


There was a student who I knew, only by his first name, Kenny. I barely knew him, nonetheless, he would always speak to me when he saw me. He could probably look intimidating if he wanted to, but he was very nice. So I’m stuck in this mob and I sensed a large presence behind me, it turned out to be Kenny. He cleared the sidewalk of people with his large voice to help me get inside out of the cold.


That is one the nicest things anyone has ever done for me. I thanked him and he just said, “No problem.” I don’t think he really understood how big of a deal that action meant to me.


I do not know if Kenny is a Christian or not, but this is a great example of how we as Christians should act.


Jesus tells us in Matthew 7:12, “So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets.”  Some people call this the Golden Rule, it’s also called the Great Commandment. This is one of the first things we are taught as children, but it’s easy to forget how important it is to live by this principle.


Kenny demonstrated a form of love, what the ancient Greeks called agape, which translates as love. The word love can be used to mean a few different things in English. The ancient Greeks, on the other hand, had a multiple words for love: philia (brotherly love), eros (erotic love), and storge (natural or instinctual affection, as of a parent for a child).


The Christian meaning of agape is “the love of Christians for other persons, corresponding to the love of God for humankind.” This is the love we should have for all people. God doesn’t expect us to be friends with everyone, He just expects us to be respectful to everyone.


Agape love goes beyond just our neighbors, it extends to our enemies. Our enemies are our neighbors and creations of God also.


But wait. We’re supposed to love our friends and hate our enemies, right? Our culture teaches us this sometimes: if you’re a member of one political party, you’re supposed to hate the other party; and if somebody wrongs you, then you get back at them. This was the belief of the culture in Jesus’ time too.


Matthew 5:43-47, however, Jesus teaches a different message.  “You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? And if you greet only your own people, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that?”


Jesus references the law from Leviticus when he instructs us to love our enemies. Leviticus 19:18, “Do not seek revenge or bear a grudge against anyone among your people, but love your neighbor as yourself. I am the Lord.”


This kind of love does not come to us easily, we naturally want to hate our enemies due to our fallen state. We have to make an effort to love our enemies, that means it’s not an emotional feeling. Loving our enemies is something we have to make ourselves do, which is difficult for us. If you make the effort to do this, then your actions will eventually follow suit.


Jesus was making this point when he said, “If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? And if you greet only your own people, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that?”  It’s easier to love those who love you and hate those who hate you, which is why everybody does it.


Finally, Jesus loves those who hate him. On the cross Jesus said, “Father, forgive them; for they know not what they do.” (Luke 23:34) After all that had been done to him Jesus still loved the people who cheered for his death and the people that physically killed him. Christ is the example we should look to.


In summary, we need to love our neighbors as ourselves and we need to love our enemies. This isn’t always the easiest thing to do, but it’s the right thing to do.

Monday, October 8, 2018

My Source of Strength

I have always enjoyed answering questions about my disease, Duchenne Muscular Dystrophy (DMD), mainly because I know enough about it that I can answer effectively. Questions like: what happened?, can you feel your legs?, or what is DMD? I can answer those easily after twenty-three years of experience. There is one question that I’m asked less often that has taken me years to form an answer to. How do you do it every day? I take this to mean, what gets me out of bed every day?

The answer I usually give is that I’m used to having Muscular Dystrophy and all that comes with it. This is the upside to a progressive disease, it starts when you're young and worsens as you get older. That might sound depressing, however, trust me, it’s not.

I know it’s hard for people who can walk to imagine not walking, but it’s equally as hard for to me to imagine walking. I haven’t walked since fifth grade, so the thought of walking does not even cross my mind. I count that as a blessing from above. I don’t want to have a longing to walk again.

For me, getting out of bed every morning using a Hoyer lift, using a wheelchair to get around, typing with a mouse and an on screen keyboard, not having a driver's’ license, going to multiple doctors multiple times a year, is all normal. I’m used to it. It's not all sunshine and rainbows all the time, but it’s a lot better than it could be. My life with DMD doesn’t upset me as much as people think it would.

This answer, although true, doesn’t fully answer the question. God is how I do it every day. Not me or my own strength, but God and His strength. I don’t rely on myself to handle DMD, I rely on God. Or as 2 Corinthians 3:5 says, “Not that we are competent in ourselves to claim anything for ourselves, but our competence comes from God.” Isaiah 40:28-29 says, “Do you not know? Have you not heard? The Lord is the everlasting God, the Creator of the ends of the earth. He will not grow tired or weary, and his understanding no one can fathom. He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak.”

Whatever ability I have to cope with DMD is from God; I can’t take the credit for any of this. As James says, “Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows.” (James 1:17)

In John 15:1-8 Jesus says,
“I am the true vine, and my Father is the gardener. He cuts off every branch in me that bears no fruit, while every branch that does bear fruit he prunes so that it will be even more fruitful. You are already clean because of the word I have spoken to you. Remain in me, as I also remain in you. No branch can bear fruit by itself; it must remain in the vine. Neither can you bear fruit unless you remain in me. I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing. If you do not remain in me, you are like a branch that is thrown away and withers; such branches are picked up, thrown into the fire and burned. If you remain in me and my words remain in you, ask whatever you wish, and it will be done for you. This is to my Father’s glory, that you bear much fruit, showing yourselves to be my disciples.”

I will say that MD is a trial for me. I don’t always respond to this trial in the best way, but I have no anger toward God for it. James 1:2-3 says, “Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance.” I try to remember this everyday. God doesn’t allow me to go through this for naught, He’s strengthening me through all of this.

A few more thoughts that get me the day are: the friends I’ve made due to DMD, the opportunities I’ve had due to DMD, the time I spend with my family, and the chance to write every day. When I make the mistake of complaining or trusting in myself instead of God, I remember all of the things God has done for me and all that he gives me.

No matter what abilities I lose and no matter what MD does to me, it will not take me away from God unless I allow it to. The only way this works is if I seek God’s help. Psalm 46:1, “God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble.” If I reach out to God and ask Him to give me strength, then He will. This isn’t my method, it’s from the Bible. “Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.” (Matthew 7:7)

So, the take home message is: I take no credit for dealing with my daily life, all the credit belongs to God. If you’re having trouble dealing with something in your life, then confess it to God and seek His strength in dealing with that. I’m no different than anyone else because everybody has problems in life. The thing is that you have to keep faith in Jesus.

Sunday, September 9, 2018

"Start spreading the news"

This post is going to be totally different, I’m going to write about my recent trip to New York. A trip like this one is one of those that will stay with me and it changed me a little bit, not to sound cliche. I don’t travel enough to be a travel blogger (nor do I want to), so here is my one travel blog post.

Let me start by expressing that I’m thankful to the good Lord above for giving me the chance to go on this trip. Many able bodied people don’t get around to going to New York City in their lifetime and the number of disabled people that don’t get to experience NYC is probably even greater. I’m not bragging, rather, I’m truly grateful.
   
Niagara Falls and Canada

The first two days of the trip were travel days from North Carolina to Pittsburgh, PA, then from Pittsburgh to Niagara Falls, Ontario. We (my parents and I) did see one sight on the first day: the New River Gorge Bridge in West Virginia. This bridge is the longest steel span in the western hemisphere and the third highest in the United States. It was a pretty cool sight to see.

Fast forward to arriving in Niagara Falls: when we were within about a mile of the falls I saw what looked like smoke, but it was actually mist from the falls. According to the locals, the mist freezes in the winter and covers the roads.

Our hotel in Niagara Falls had a view of the falls, which was awesome to see from the fourteenth floor. There were two gift shops, a TGI Friday’s, and a steakhouse. That's a whole other level of hotel right there. The hotel staff were really nice people also, very friendly and very helpful.

We ate at Friday’s for supper and they were showing the Bristol race, so I was happy. I didn’t know Canadians watched NASCAR.

Day 3 involved going down to the falls. There was a tourist-y building with gift shops, a couple restaurants, a theater, and the Behind the Falls tour. We went on the Behind the Falls tour, which is where you go down into tunnels that are carved into the rock behind the falls. The tunnels, as you can imagine, were crowded and dark. The views were worth it completely, but I didn’t like being in the tunnels. I’m glad I did it, I don’t want to do it again. After the tour we went back topside to saw the falls again from a different angle.

Canada was a fascinating place to visit. Everything was metric; I bought a bottle of Sprite that was 500 ml, the speed limit on Queen Elizabeth Way (a highway) is 100 km/h, and the temperatures were in the 20’s Celsius. (Metric actually makes more sense than imperial.) And the currency is the Canadian Dollar; the smallest paper bill for them is the five dollar bill and the coins go as high as the two dollar coin.

They do, however, drive on the right side of the road. Canadians drive pretty much the same cars as we Americans do: Chevy, Ford, Dodge, Honda, Nissan, Toyota, etc. The people in Canada are nice, but they’re not much different than people in America. To me, and this could be incorrect, Canada is similar in some ways to Europe and similar in some ways to the U.S.: they use the metric system like Europe and their football is similar to American football.

More Travel
   
The fourth day was another day of travel, this time from Niagara Falls to New York City. We had to cross back over the border and go through Buffalo before we really got going. The majority of the parts of New York state we saw were farmland, mountains, or small towns and it was beautiful. I knew there was more to New York than NYC, but I didn’t realize it was that rural. The Empire State was so rural that it reminded me of North Carolina.

There weren’t many signs of city until we made it to New Jersey. Once we arrived in Newark it was all city all over. When I saw New York City across the river all lit up in the evening it was almost overwhelming. I found the Freedom Tower easily and it was awesome to see. I wasn’t done being overwhelmed until we emerged from the Lincoln Tunnel right in the heart of the city. I felt like an ant surrounded by all those skyscrapers. It’s difficult for me to express that feeling of wonderment into words.

We eventually got settled in our hotel sometime after ten probably, I had to get used to sleeping with the city noises in the background. I slept enough that night though.

NYC sights

On the first day in NYC we went to the Freedom Tower and the rest of the World Trade Center. The Freedom Tower is officially named One World Trade Center and it was completed in 2015 as part of rebuilding the WTC. One World Trade Center has an observation deck on the 102nd floor, which allows you to see the entire city and even Jersey City. Fortunately, the skies were clear and it was easy to see.

After the Freedom Tower we went to find food. There’s an area beneath the WTC that connects the subway station, the Freedom Tower, and Brookfield Place. The latter is a mall on like the bottom two floors of a building across the street from the WTC. For a country boy like myself that was an impressive mall. It had a food court with pretty much any kind of food you could want. And there was a complete Rite-Aid in this mall. I don’t know why that amazes me, but it does. We ain’t got pharmacies in malls in China Grove.

We went back over the WTC to see the reflecting pools in the footprint of the Twin Towers. It was humbling to see the names of all those who perished in the 9/11 attacks. That’s about all that words can describe.

We then went to the 9/11 Memorial Museum, it’s beside the reflecting pools. In the museum there’s items from the original towers and 9/11, such as beams sheared from one of the buildings by the impact, a fire truck that was crushed by the collapse of one of the towers, and retaining walls from under the Twin Towers. Apparently, in order to construct the World Trade Center, it was necessary to build a "bathtub" with a slurry wall around the West Street side of the site, to keep water from the Hudson River out. This slurry wall is the one on display.

The fire truck was the item I remember the most, it was from Ladder Company 3. From the museum website, “Ladder 3 was parked on West Street near Vesey Street on September 11, 2001. The damage the truck sustained, as a result of the collapse of the Twin Towers destroyed the vehicle. The front cab was shorn off and the aerial ladder was partially crushed.”

The next day we went to Times Square and then we went to the concert that was the main purpose of the trip. First I’ll talk about Times Square. The first thing we did was go to one of those ‘I love NYC’ stores. That store was the biggest one I had seen by that point, so that’s the one I wanted to go in. That store had so many souvenirs; if they didn’t have it, then you didn’t need it. I bought a Yankees hat and a NYPD shirt.

After that we went to the M&M’s store, which was three floors high and full of candy and more souvenirs. The rest of the time we spent in Times Square, aside from eating lunch, was walking around looking. There were people everywhere and stores everywhere. It was neat to see, but I understand why locals steer clear of it: it’s full of tourists.

I’m going to move on to 8:00 that night for the concert. The concert was Jeff Lynne’s ELO, formerly the Electric Light Orchestra, in Madison Square Garden. I’m going to start by saying that everyone working the concert were very nice people. I’m a classic rock guy and so is my dad, so I’ve heard ELO songs many times in my young life and I like their music. Jeff Lynne is British and he’s 70, so this was a once-in-a-lifetime kind of thing. He sounded just like he does in the recordings from the 1970s and -80s. It was a great concert. I could keep going for a few paragraphs, but I’ll spare you that.

The next day we went to Battery Park and took the ferry to the Statue of Liberty and then Ellis Island. The Statue of Liberty was really interesting to see in person. I mean, that’s pretty much all there is to do on that island, aside from eating and looking at the gift shop, nonetheless, it was awesome to see. Ellis Island was the next stop.

Ellis Island is where immigrants to the US would enter the country and go through various examinations to determine whether they were fit to further enter the country or not. The main building used then is now the museum. There’s exhibits on different aspects of immigration, agriculture, the history of industry in America, etc. The exhibits, however, almost had too much information to fully take in. And I’ve seen multiple documentaries on immigration in the twentieth century. I don’t mean that I know everything about immigration, but I didn’t learn anything earth shattering. Ellis Island still was neat to see.

All I’ll go into about the ferry ride is: when we landed back at Battery Park that ferry was rocking and the ramp was bucking back and forth. I was not a fan of the thought of going down the ramp, but the crewmen got me off safely and I appreciate that tremendously. Those guys must be hard workers to work on those ferries.

On the final day in the Big Apple we went to the Empire State Building, Macy’s, and Central Park. The Empire State Building is, obviously, an iconic American sight, so I’m glad we went to its observation deck too. The inside of the building is nice, it’s definitely Art Deco. I’m a fan of practically anything historical, therefore, I thought it was amazing.

We went to Macy’s after that, not just any Macy’s, the Macy’s at Herald Square. Let’s be honest, I didn’t want to go in the store, seeing the exterior would have been enough for me, but we went in and it was not terrible. That store is nine stories high and the size of a block. Macy’s sells a lot of stuff at that location, from clothes to furniture.

After we left Macy’s, the next stop was Central Park. We had the taxi drop us at the Met, the Metropolitan Museum of Arts. I would’ve wanted to go in the Met if we had more time, but the park was more important. I knew Central Park was big, but dang, it’s big. We walked to the reservoir and Cleopatra’s Needle, which took over an hour all together. I enjoyed seeing the park.

Cleopatra’s Needle is an obelisk that was originally built in Egypt in 1475 BC. The Romans moved the obelisks in 12 BC to Alexandria to a temple built by Cleopatra, then toppled around the same time. It was rediscovered the 1870s and the Egyptian government sent it to our government as a gift. William Vanderbilt largely funded the transportation of the obelisk across land to New York.

The next and final day of a trip was the drive from NYC back home. I knew we were back in Dixie when we rode on the Jefferson Davis Highway in Virginia. I didn’t want to leave New York, however, I was glad to be home.

The NYC atmosphere

I, admittedly, was skeptical that I would enjoy New York at all. I knew I would enjoy the concert and sightseeing, but I thought the city itself would be difficult for me to get around. I don’t like crowds at all because many people walk all over me, so I assumed that would be the case in New York City.

Another reason for my skepticism is that I’m too much of a country boy to like cities. I am happy living out in the country away from heavy traffic and city noises. I could spend a while explaining why I’m not a city person, but you get the idea. My only problem with living where I do is that restaurants don’t deliver food that far.

The first night in NYC didn’t change my opinion, however, we had about an eight hour drive to get there, so I was tired. The next day changed my negative opinion into a positive one. It started with the taxi ride. Some explanation is needed for those of you that don’t know me well or that don’t know much about handicap accessible vehicles.

We have a minivan with a ramp conversion, or a ramp van. Converting a minivan into a ramp van involves, basically, lowering the floor installing a ramp, and removing seats. A ramp van is the alternative to a van with a lift, I don’t like vehicles with lifts (that’s a story for another time). Another thing about me riding in a handicap accessible vehicle is that I feel almost everything (bumps, turns, acceleration, braking) more than you’d think. Since we have a side entry van I sit in the middle, in front of the ‘third row’.

The handicap taxis in NYC are all ramp vans, which is great, and most of our drivers were good. The taxis were rear entry vans, therefore I sat in the back behind the middle row of seats. In our van the entire floor was lowered, but in a rear entry van the section where the person in the wheelchair sits is the only lowered part. I couldn't half see out the windows much because of the lowered floor. That is probably a good thing considering the way people have to drive up there.

Most of the drivers were pretty good, but we had one guy that was like the Dale Earnhardt of taxi drivers: he knew how to handle a car. I mean this guy was navigating traffic like it was the Daytona 500, and he wasn’t dangerous about it, he was smooth.

Sidewalk traffic, on the other hand, wasn’t so bad. Most people walk at a brisk pace and they don’t walk all over everyone else. The people are a lot nicer than I thought they would be. Most people also gave me some room once they saw I was in a wheelchair. Some folks walk quickly and get around others however they can, but it’s not the majority of people. You learn to just go where you want and people move without being too rude. The sidewalks turned out to be easier to get around than I anticipated. I actually enjoyed ‘walking’ around once I got used to it.

Now the food, oh the food in NYC is great everywhere. There are restaurants of all kinds all over the place: italian, southern barbecue, chinese, thai, korean, burgers, pizza, greek, irish, mexican, etc. There’s a pizza place in Macy’s that even has good pizza. We ate at an irish pub one night and their fish and chips was so good it’d make you slap somebody. If I lived in NYC I’d be the size of a planet with all that great food. And I’m only halfway joking about that.

The Yankees

I just have one final story. I mentioned buying a Yankees hat, but what I didn’t mention is that I became a Yankees. I’ve always had a love-hate relationship with baseball because I didn’t get it. I know it sounds weird, but being in NYC made me a Yankees fan. I think it’s that I enjoyed New York so much that I wanted to “be a part of it”, even at home. I can’t explain it any better than that.

My observation is that New Yorkers need something to do that’s a little slower than the regular hustle and bustle of the city, so baseball was just that. Plus, as with most sports franchises, it gives people something to unite behind. The Yanks fans are a tight group, they stick together. What’s more, the Yankees won the World Series after New York City survived the horrific 9/11 attacks in 2001.

Wrap up

My conclusion is that everyone should experience New York City at least once in their life. I do not want to live there, but it’s a magnificent place to visit. Even for a country boy like me it was fun. There are so many things to see and do up there that I want to go back. How’s that for a review of a city?