Merry Christmas

It's Christmas Day and the Christmas spirit is in the air. Christmas is my favorite holiday of the year, but not because of Santa or opening presents. It's my favorite holiday because Christmas is the holiday where we celebrate the birth of the King (Luke 1:29-33): the baby who was born to a virgin (Matthew 1:22), lived a sinless life (2 Corinthians 5:21), and then was "pierced for our transgressions" (Isaiah 53:5) 33 years later. Christmas is about celebrating the gift of grace that God gave us through our savior, Jesus Christ (Luke 2:8-12). "Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is the Messiah, the Lord." (Luke 2:11)

The birth of Jesus was the fulfillment of the prophecies in the Old Testament. Prophecies like:

"Therefore the Lord himself will give you a sign: The virgin will conceive and give birth to a son, and will call him Immanuel." (Isaiah 7:14)

"May the desert tribes bow before him and his enemies lick the dust." (Psalm 72:9)

 "'The days are coming,' declares the Lord, 'when I will raise up for David a righteous Branch, a King who will reign wisely and do what is just and right in the land. In his days Judah will be saved and Israel will live in safety. This is the name by which he will be called: The Lord Our Righteous Savior.'" (Jeremiah 23:5-6) 

“But you, Bethlehem Ephrathah, though you are small among the clans of Judah, out of you will come for me one who will be ruler over Israel, whose origins are from of old, from ancient times.” (Micah 5:2)

"I will proclaim the Lord’s decree: He said to me, “You are my son; today I have become your father." (Psalm 2:7)

Christmas is about more than what's under the tree, it's about God's amazing gift of His son to mankind. Christmas presents are nice to give and receive, but we just need to remember why we celebrate December 25th. As Americans, we can get caught up in buying presents, opening presents, sporting events, etc. on Christmas Day and miss the whole meaning of Christmas. It's almost easy to get distracted because of all the stores open on Christmas Day. This is a sad thing to do, because of all of the blessings God gives us. God deserves and desires gifts from His people, a gift like spending time in the Bible or in prayer; it's a gift for the person as well as a gift to God.

While I was researching and planning this article, I found a great article on About.com titled "10 Ways to Keep Christ in Christmas"; it gave me some of the ideas I'm writing, so I would suggest reading it. Anyway, #8 on this list is my favorite: "Attend a Christmas church service together with your family". I (now more than ever) enjoy going to the Christmas Eve service at my church; I enjoy singing Christmas hymns, lighting the candles in silence, reading the account of Jesus' birth, and seeing the North star in the night sky. The North star reminds me of how faithful the Magi were in following the star they saw to see the newborn King; they had the kind of faith we all should have.

"After they had heard the king, they went on their way, and the star they had seen when it rose went ahead of them until it stopped over the place where the child was. When they saw the star, they were overjoyed. On coming to the house, they saw the child with his mother Mary, and they bowed down and worshiped him. Then they opened their treasures and presented him with gifts of gold, frankincense and myrrh. And having been warned in a dream not to go back to Herod, they returned to their country by another route." (Matthew 2:9-12)

So Merry Christmas ,everyone. Thank you for reading my blog. In the words of Tiny Tim, from A Christmas Carol, "God bless us, everyone!" 

Live Like It's Your Last Day

I'm sure most of my readers have heard Tim McGraw's song "Live Like You Were Dying" (for the lyrics: http://www.songlyrics.com/tim-mcgraw/live-like-you-were-dying-lyrics/); if not, I would suggest listening to it, it has a great message. 

"This song is associated with McGraw's father, Tug McGraw, who was hospitalized with a brain tumor on March 12, 2003. It was revealed that he had cancer. He was given three weeks to live by the doctors, but surprisingly survived nine months. He died on January 5, 2004." (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Live_Like_You_Were_Dying_(song)#Content)

To sum up "Live Like You Were Dying" for those of you who have not heard the song before: the song revolves around a man telling the singer that he did numerous things as if he were living his last day, because his father, on his death bed, told him that he had plenty of life before him and he needed to live like he was dying. Some of the things this man did were:

• he went skydiving
• he went mountain climbing
• he became a better husband
• he read the Good Book
• he gave forgiveness he had refused to

This song's message is that you should live everyday like it's your last day. The message of this song is something to think about, because we never know how long God will keep us on earth, it could be 16 years or 102 years. That being said, you can't worry about how long you're alive (on earth) because you can't control your lifespan, but you can control what you do while you're here. If you see something that you need to do, such as visiting older family members, helping those in need, helping a friend in need, giving someone a Bible, or other Christian duties, then do it now not later.

I used to procrastinate all the time on everything: I would wait until the day before to due projects, I would promise myself that I would start reading the Bible the next day, or I would say that I'll get to something when I get to it. Don't be like that, there are many assignments and other things that I would have done better on if I would have started them earlier. I, with a lot of help from God finally overcame procrastination and I'm glad I did. I would consider procrastinating as living in the future.

People also live in the past many times, focusing on how they should have handled a situation and figuratively beating themselves up about it. It is good to look back into history to see what you should do in the future, but it's not good to say what you could have done in the past because hindsight is 20/20. I have done this many times before as well, it's not any better than procrastination. All anyone can do is live now, not in the past or the future.

Here's some scripture related to what I'm saying:

“Therefore do not be anxious about tomorrow, for tomorrow will be anxious for itself. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble." (Matthew 6:34)

"Look carefully then how you walk, not as unwise but as wise, making the best use of the time, because the days are evil." (Ephesians 5:15-16) 

"Put on then, as God's chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive. And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony." (Colossians 3:12-14)

"Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things. Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me – put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you." (Philippians 4:8-9)

So, remember to live life like it's your last day, don't let the future or the past restrict you from doing God's work when you need to. I know it can be difficult at times to what needs to be done now, but Jesus did what he needed to do when he was on earth and he led by example. "Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things. Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me—put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you." (Philippians 4: 8-9)

Role Models

We all look up to someone to learn how you should live and how you should treat others. Role models or mentors can range from your parents to people you have never met in real life, to your friends. J.R.R. Tolkien was C.S. Lewis' role model, Emerson was Thoreau's mentor, and Thomas Jefferson mentored Meriwether Lewis. I see my parents and family, the adults that I go to church with, my friends, and even Christians from history as role models; Jesus Christ is of course the perfect role model because He is perfect. Many people look up to celebrities or athletes as role models, many of whom are not good role models.

The Bible can help you to determine who is a good role model and who is not. Psalms 1:1-3 says, "Blessed is the one who does not walk in step with the wicked, or stand in the way that sinners take, or sit in the company of mockers, but whose delight is in the law of the Lord, and who meditates on his law day and night. That person is like a tree planted by streams of water, which yields its fruit in season and whose leaf does not wither— whatever they do prospers."

This passage speaks volumes about how role models should act. A good role model abstains from sinful actions and evildoers to the best of their abilities. They avoid mocking the Lord, and they seek to do good in the eyes of God, as Christ did. There are other Biblical passages that speak about role models or how to live like one:

"Follow God’s example, therefore, as dearly loved children and walk in the way of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God." (Ephesians 5:1-2)

"But how is it to your credit if you receive a beating for doing wrong and endure it? But if you suffer for doing good and you endure it, this is commendable before God. To this you were called, because Christ suffered for you, leaving you an example, that you should follow in his steps.

“He committed no sin,    and no deceit was found in his mouth.”" (1 Peter 2:20-22)

"Anyone who hates a brother or sister is a murderer, and you know that no murderer has eternal life residing in him. This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us. And we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers and sisters." (1 John 3:15-16)

As followers of Christ we are supposed to set an example for non-Christians, not because we are better but because God instructs us to. Titus 2:7-8 says, "In everything set them an example by doing what is good. In your teaching show integrity, seriousness and soundness of speech that cannot be condemned, so that those who oppose you may be ashamed because they have nothing bad to say about us." Further, Matthew 5:14-16 instructs us in a similar way, “You are the light of the world. A city set on a hill cannot be hidden. Nor do people light a lamp and put it under a basket, but on a stand, and it gives light to all in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven." The last verse I'm going to use is 2 Timothy 2:15, "Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a worker who does not need to be ashamed and who correctly handles the word of truth."

If you know me personally, then you probably know that I'm conservative in religion and politics. My reasoning behind being so conservative is to be a good role model for others. It's not that I want people to be like me, but I have had people tell me that they look up to me for being strong. I don't think I'm any stronger than the average person, I'm just a guy living with a disease; plenty of people have problems, well everyone does, that they live with. Some disabled people think it's offensive that people look up to them for dealing with a disease, but it's not offensive, it's humbling. God has put me in great position to share the Good News and I need to do so because I know how many things He has done for me. I make mistakes all of the time, so I know I'm not a perfect role model by any means. In summation:"Don’t let anyone look down on you because you are young, but set an example for the believers in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith and in purity." (1 Timothy 4:12)

As I mentioned earlier, many celebrities are not good role models: an example of a bad celebrity role model is Alec Baldwin. I am not denying his acting ability, I used to watch 30 Rock and I've seen a few movies with him in them, I am, however, pointing out that he is a bad role model. Baldwin is known to let his anger get the best of him. The most recent example of his temper: in May of this year Baldwin was arrested in New York City. He was stopped by two policemen for riding his bicycle the wrong way down the road, the policemen asked him for his ID. Baldwin became belligerent at that point and was arrested. This is not the only example of his temper, there are others. I'm not insinuating that I'm superior to him, but I am pointing out that he is setting a bad example for his audience.

"He that gives good advice, builds with one hand; he that gives good counsel and example, builds with both; but he that gives good admonition and bad example, builds with one hand and pulls down with the other." -Francis Bacon

Is the glass half full or half empty?

The other day after class (I go to Rowan-Cabarrus Community College and students there are pretty nice people usually), I was sitting under tree to keep out of the sun, which has been exceptionally hot as of lately, and this other student walked by. This student was probably 15 or 16, putting him in the early college program and he had a backpack full of books -- mind you it was about 92 degrees out.

Being in the South, many people ask a person under a tree, "Are you staying out of the heat?", just as this guy did. I replied, "Trying to, but it's hot out here.", to which he said. He quuckly respond with, "It depends on how you look at it." He smiled and continued walking by me.

That might just sound like a normal example of a friendly conversation, but there is a lot of wisdom in this guy's final comment. His comment reminded me that I wasn't being the optimist that I am; this guy had every right, according to most people, to complain and he didn't. 

As I mentioned, I'm an optimist and I have always been one. I don't know how I became an optimist originally, but now I'm optimistic because I know where I'm going after this life. The reason I know this is by knowing who I worship and the promises He has made and kept.

Below are some examples of the promises I'm talking about.

"And I will ask the Father, and he will give you another advocate to help you and be with you forever— the Spirit of truth. The world cannot accept him, because it neither sees him nor knows him. But you know him, for he lives with you and will be in you." (John 14:16-17)

"So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand." (Isaiah 41:10)

"Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God." (2 Corinthians 1:3-4)

"If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you." (James 1:5)

“Therefore, say to the Israelites: ‘I am the Lord, and I will bring you out from under the yoke of the Egyptians. I will free you from being slaves to them, and I will redeem you with an outstretched arm and with mighty acts of judgment. I will take you as my own people, and I will be your God.Then you will know that I am the Lord your God, who brought you out from under the yoke of the Egyptians. And I will bring you to the land I swore with uplifted hand to give to Abraham, to Isaac and to Jacob. I will give it to you as a possession. I am the Lord.’” (Exodus 6:6-8)

"The Lord is my shepherd, I lack nothing. He makes me lie down in green pastures,he leads me beside quiet waters, he refreshes my soul. He guides me along the right paths for his name’s sake. Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me. You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies. You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows. Surely your goodness and love will follow me all the days of my life, and I will dwell in the house of the Lord forever." (Psalm 23)

These verses remind me to stay optimistic and not to complain. Complaining never solves anything anyway, not even if it seems like it should. I like what Tony Dungy said about complaining: "When you're in a situation, you can complain about it, you can feel sorry for yourself, you can do a lot of things. But how are you gonna make the situation better?" So, when you (I'm talking to myself too) feel like complaining remember the sacrifice Jesus Christ made for you.

Christian Persecution

Christians have been persecuted in various ways since Jesus was crucified. I would like to bring awareness to Christian persecution today, as it is still around. Many countries have violent persecution towards Christians. Christians in America may face persecution, but it is usually non-violent persecution, thankfully.

According to http://www.worldwatchlist.us/, 50 countries worldwide persecute people if they are Christian. Now, 50 countries might not sound like many, but there are 196 countries in the world. North Korea is ranked number one on the World Watch List 2014; there are about 50,000-70,000 Christians in labor camps in N. Korea. 

"Religion is viewed as a means of foreign encroachment, and it is believed that it would inflict harm on North Korea's social disciplines. Consequently, in its social stratification system called Songbun, all Christians are classified as 'hostile' and even considered to be a separate 'subclass'. Christians whose faith is discovered are sent to political labour camps from which release is not possible." (from http://www.opendoorsuk.org/persecution/worldwatch/north_korea.php)

The only thing, aside from God, that prevents persecution on the same level as North Korea in America is the U.S. Constitution, specifically the First Amendment: 

"Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances. "(http://www.archives.gov/exhibits/charters/bill_of_rights_transcript.html)

One could argue that there have been infringements on the First Amendment, nonetheless, we still have it. We take that amendment for granted many times, because there have been a few generations since the early Americans who had to fight for our religious rights. We should never take any rights for granted so we can preserve them for us and our future generations. Never forget, Edmund Burke's famous quote:

 "The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing." 

Many people ask: Why would someone suffer persecution for God? I look to the Bible for my answer:

"For it is better, if it is God’s will, to suffer for doing good than for doing evil. For Christ also suffered once for sins, the righteous for the unrighteous, to bring you to God. He was put to death in the body but made alive in the Spirit."  1 Peter 3:17-19 

"Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances;for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus." 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18

"Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall trouble or hardship or persecution or famine or nakedness or danger or sword? As it is written: “For your sake we face death all day long; we are considered as sheep to be slaughtered.” No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord." Romans 8:35-39

“If the world hates you, keep in mind that it hated me first. If you belonged to the world, it would love you as its own. As it is, you do not belong to the world, but I have chosen you out of the world. That is why the world hates you. Remember what I told you: ‘A servant is not greater than his master.’ If they persecuted me, they will persecute you also. If they obeyed my teaching, they will obey yours also. They will treat you this way because of my name, for they do not know the one who sent me." John 15:18-21

"So do not be ashamed of the testimony about our Lord or of me his prisoner. Rather, join with me in suffering for the gospel, by the power of God." 2 Timothy 1:8

As these verses explain: Christians are persecuted because Christ was persecuted, not because of anything we did, except deciding to follow Jesus; and nothing can separate a Christian from God, not even death. In Jesus Christ's last hours (after he was nailed to the cross) he said:

“Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing.” Luke 22:34

Just as Jesus forgave and asked God to forgive those who persecuted him, so should we (as Christians) forgive and ask God to forgive those who persecute us. As I stated earlier, Christians are only persecuted because of our King. Those who persecute Christians now are like Jesus' persecutors, they ultimately do not know what they are doing. 

Remember the Christians who are suffering internationally for Christ and pray for God to give them strength to persevere in the face of adversity. If you would like to learn more about persecution, here are some good websites: 
http://www.persecution.com/ (Voice of the Martyrs), https://www.opendoorsusa.org/persecution/, and http://www.persecution.org/ (International Christian Concern).

Humility

Let me start this post by saying, I appreciate all the compliments I have been receiving on my writing from my readers, but I must humbly give all credit to God. God gives all good things, "Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows." (James 1:17) I do have to work continually to improve my writing, however, but it is God who provides me with the perseverance to do so. I am thankful for everyone's support, so I'm not writing this to downplay the compliments given to me. 

In light of the previous paragraph, this week's topic is humility. I like C.S. Lewis' definition of humility, "Humility is not thinking less of yourself, it's thinking of yourself less." Charles Spurgeon also had a good view of humility, "None are more unjust in their judgments of others than those who have a high opinion of themselves." Matthew 7:1-5 says, "Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you. “Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? How can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye."

Everyone has trouble with humility, it's so easy to become prideful and conceited because no human is perfect. Just because everyone has trouble with humility does not excuse it, nonetheless. Philippians 2:3-4 instructs us to be humble: "Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others." We are instructed to put others before ourselves just as Christ displayed on the cross; He put every single one of us before Himself when He gave His life as reconciliation for our sins, the ultimate act of love and humility.

God rewards those individuals who emulate the humility of His son, Luke 14:11 says: "For all those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted." That verse is also a warning for those who exalt themselves; God may allow arrogance temporarily, but those individuals will be humbled at some point. It is easier to swallow your pride quickly before it gets out of hand, just as Barney Fife always said, "Andy, you gotta nip it, nip it the bud!" 

If you humble yourself, then God will reward you either in this life or in the next life (you should not act humble just to get rewards though). 1 Peter 5:6 reiterates this idea, "Humble yourselves, therefore, under God’s mighty hand, that he may lift you up in due time." Humility also yields wisdom, Proverbs 11:2: "When pride comes, then comes disgrace, but with humility comes wisdom." I've witnessed firsthand how wisdom comes from humility.

The example in my previous post on worry could also apply to this post, but I will supply you with another. By fourth grade, I began to have difficulty completing many physical tasks, I was almost confined to a wheelchair at that point. I originally had difficulty asking for help, the source some of that difficulty was me getting used to having help with everyday tasks, but the main source of that difficulty was pride. I realized over time that my pride was ridiculous as I had to have assistance to complete many tasks that required physical movement, it wasn't optional. 

I finally realized that needing help wasn't anything to be prideful about, every single person needs help with something in their life. It is foolish to think otherwise just as Proverbs 12:15 explains, "The way of fools seems right to them, but the wise listen to advice." It is good when you finally come to grips with the fact that you don't know everything and you can't do everything by yourself, it is wise to listen to advice and ask for help when it's needed. Most humbling of all was when God led me to see that I needed a savior, that savior is Jesus Christ. 

Ephesians 2:1-10 is a great passage to explain the need for a savior, "As for you, you were dead in your transgressions and sins, in which you used to live when you followed the ways of this world and of the ruler of the kingdom of the air, the spirit who is now at work in those who are disobedient. All of us also lived among them at one time, gratifying the cravings of our flesh and following its desires and thoughts. Like the rest, we were by nature deserving of wrath. But because of his great love for us, God, who is rich in mercy, made us alive with Christ even when we were dead in transgressions—it is by grace you have been saved. And God raised us up with Christ and seated us with him in the heavenly realms in Christ Jesus, in order that in the coming ages he might show the incomparable riches of his grace, expressed in his kindness to us in Christ Jesus. For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God— not by works, so that no one can boast. For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works,which God prepared in advance for us to do." 

John 3:14-18 concurs with Ephesians, "Just as Moses lifted up the snake in the wilderness, so the Son of Man must be lifted up, that everyone who believes may have eternal life in him. For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him. Whoever believes in him is not condemned, but whoever does not believe stands condemned already because they have not believed in the name of God’s one and only Son." Many people think that it is a imprisoning thought to need a savior, but it is quite humbling and freeing to need a savior.

I know I used a couple larger passages than normal, but I felt that God was pushing me share the source of my hope. "But in your hearts revere Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect" (1 Peter 3:15). 

Worry

Worry, according to Merriam-Webster, is "to think about problems or fears : to feel or show fear and concern because you think that something bad has happened or could happen". Anxiety is very similar to worry, anxiety is "fear or nervousness about what might happen". Anxiety and worry go hand in hand and can cause similar problems. All human beings are worry about something at some point in their life.

What do people worry about? Why? People worry about an assortment of things in life, such as change, the future, past mistakes, money, or what other people think about them; all of these things are out of our control. We, as humans, worry about things that are out of our control because we like to be in control. Humans are not in control of everything, God is in control, He is, after all, the Creator of the world and everything in it; Genesis 1:1: "In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth."

Why shouldn't people worry? Worrying never actually helps anyone or anything, it has no power to change the outcome of a situation; in Matthew 6:27 Jesus says: "Can any one of you by worrying add a single hour to your life?". Jesus' question here is rhetorical, because no one can add an hour to their life by any means, let alone worrying. The other reason not to worry is that worrying can lead to anxiety, which can cause health issues, like high blood pressure, panic attacks, headaches, and sleep loss. 

As I stated earlier, God is in control; Psalms 46:10 says, "Let go of your concerns! Then you will know that I am God. I rule the nations. I rule the earth." We just need to trust God as Proverbs 3:5-6 instructs us to do: "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight." God will always provide for his people; Matthew 6:31-32, "So do not worry, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them."

I'm not writing this post to sound self-righteous, I'm speaking from experience. I have been and can be a worrier, so I know how ridiculous worrying can be. I'll give you an example of when I have worried: when I was in eighth grade, I had a spinal fusion surgery to correct scoliosis. "Fusion is a surgical technique in which one or more of the vertebrae of the spine are united together (“fused”) so that motion no longer occurs between them." I wasn't worried at all about the surgery because I knew how much it would benefit my body; after the scoliosis was corrected, I lost the ability to eat by myself. I wasn't worried about having help eating, I was worried about having help eating in public; as in, I was worried about what other people would think. 

Along that time, a friend of mine showed me Galatians 1:10, which says: "Am I now trying to win the approval of human beings, or of God? Or am I trying to please people? If I were still trying to please people, I would not be a servant of Christ." This verse taught me that I shouldn't be worried about what other people think, I should focus on serving God through whatever challenges arise in life. The other thing that showed me why I shouldn't worry about this was the support of my family and friends; you guys know who you are, thanks for the support. Since I got over worrying about having help eating in public, I haven't worried about as many things. Getting over that one worry was the first step to dealing with worrying as a whole.

So, the next time you worry about something, take a step back, pray, and trust that God knows what He's doing. Henry Ford put it best, "I believe God is managing affairs and that He doesn't need any advice from me. With God in charge, I believe everything will work out for the best in the end. So what is there to worry about?" 

Respect vs Political Correctness

According to disability-rights.org, disability etiquette is "preferred etiquette when meeting, introducing, writing about, assisting, or enjoying the company of a person who has a disability." Disability etiquette is part of political correctness. Political correctness is "conforming to a belief that language and practices which could offend political sensibilities (as in matters of sex or race) should be eliminated". As you are probably aware, political correctness is considered very important these days.

Respect, according to Merriam-Webster, is "a feeling or understanding that someone or
something is important, serious, etc., and should be treated in an appropriate way". Respect can also be defined by Matthew 7:12, "So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets" (commonly known as the Golden Rule). Respect should be given to everyone, including people you disagree with or people who dislike you. Luke 6:27-28 says: "But to you who are listening I say: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you". Romans 12:14 is very similar: "Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse."

What is the difference? Respect is given to someone because "all men are created equal." No one person deserves more respect than another person, regardless of appearance or situation in life. Acts 17:26 shows how all mankind is created equal: "From one man he made all the nations, that they should inhabit the whole earth; and he marked out their appointed times in history and the boundaries of their lands." Now, political correctness is applied to certain groups because they have a disability or have a different skin tone. Political correctness can turn into trivial sayings instead of the truth – it makes situations awkward for everyone involved, by making people think they are going to say the wrong thing.

An example of political correctness is: "Say 'person with a disability' rather than 'disabled person.'" (taken from http://www.unitedspinal.org/disability-etiquette/). There isn't a difference in the two phrases except the former is considered offensive, whereas the latter is considered appropriate. I use many of the terms for physical disabilities that are considered offensive to describe myself and I am not being self-deprecating. For example, I use the terms: handicapped, disabled, confined to a wheelchair, and crippled. Political correctness turns into sugar coating instead of honesty. Being respectful is telling the truth in a cordial manner. 

Just as a disclaimer, by no means am I justifying disrespect or rudeness. The intention of the post is to provide an explanation.

Does God give people diseases?

Many times when someone is diagnosed with a disease they blame God; blaming God is a common human reaction when difficulties of any kind arise in life. Is it God's fault that someone gets a disease; does He give people diseases? My answer to both of these questions is no.

To start of with I need to explain how diseases came into the world; to do this we must go back to original sin, not sin nowadays. In Genesis 3, there is an account of the first sin by mankind (Adam & Eve eating of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil) and the consequences of the first sin. When the first sin was committed we lost our innocence, we fell and the world fell. Thus, the human body was allowed to contract diseases. 

Now, why do people get diseases? Frankly, I have no idea why people get diseases. Isaiah 55:9 says: "As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts." God acts without telling humans why, he doesn't have to tell us why. His ways would likely confuse us if he did tell reveal them to us because His ways are higher than ours. No matter what happens to anyone, God allows things to happen for a reason. Here's why I believe that: Romans 8:28: "And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose."

From my experience as a disabled person, I have been through things in life that God gave me the strength to get through. I don't know God's plan for my life, but I know He has a plan for me (even with a disability).